In Japan knowing whether you're an S (Sadistic) or M (Masochistic) is like knowing your blood type (Blood type in Japan is another topic I'll discuss later). These terms are not used only for relationships (in terms of love) but also for many other aspects of life.
Being an extreme M, does one jeopardize his/her pride?
For instance, getting back to your lover whenever he wants you back, and leaving his whereabouts whenever he wants you out, like his little puppy. We can say this kind of a girl is very M but where's her pride?
Should M be experienced on a game level (for any kind of pleasure purposes) or be blended in real life experiences opposing one's character and self-esteem? In other words, should it be diffused/dissolved in S like an S&M fusion to avoid any pride confusions?
S balances M and M balances S, I guess. But it shouldn't be a fifty-fifty marriage.
I'm a proud M.
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